By Gyln “Ginner” Turner

In the heat of competition, emotions can run high especially when we feel a decision hasn’t gone our way. But as coaches, we must ask ourselves: What example are we setting when we refuse to shake hands, cry robbery, or openly criticise judges calling them cheats or opposing teams?

This isn’t about silencing your passion or denying your loyalty to your boxer. It’s about leadership. It’s about teaching by example.

When a coach reacts with hostility swearing, storming off, or blaming the system it doesn’t change the outcome. The decision stands. Every bout is observed by trained referees and judges, often three to five, who are doing their best to score fairly from every angle. They are not perfect,  they are human, trained, and dedicated to the sport just like we are.

Let’s not forget: coaches are invited and encouraged to attend official training sessions. These are opportunities to understand the scoring system, to ask questions, and even to become officials ourselves if we believe we can contribute to raising the standard. Some of the finest officials in the sport today began their journey in the corner of the ring. You have that same opportunity.

But most importantly think about your boxer.

When we, as coaches, react with anger or disrespect, we shape how our athletes see the sport. If we shout “robbery” at every close decision, the boxer may stop reflecting on their own performance. If we refuse to show sportsmanship, the boxer may mirror that behaviour—losing respect for opponents, for officials, and for the sport itself. And sadly, if the message is always, “You didn’t lose; the system is against you,” some boxers will eventually walk away disillusioned and defeated.

That’s a heartbreaking outcome especially when we know how much potential these young athletes have.

So, to any coach reading this who may have reacted this way in the past: this isn’t an attack. It’s a plea.

You are a leader. You represent your boxer, your club, your region, and England Boxing. And above all, you represent yourself. Hold your head high, regardless of the result. Shake the opponent’s hand. Congratulate the other corner. Teach resilience and humility. There is always another bout—another chance to prove your point the right way.

Let’s raise a generation of boxers who respect the sport because their coaches showed them how.

Let’s teach by example

Glyn Turner
A coach from the East Midlands and official.


click in the text below to read the guidance from England boxing 

Reminder for coaches to respect corner rules